jnmil meaning reddit

You tell that human nightmare to never contact you again, then you block her everywhere. She wants to manipulate you both into thinking that having your daughter's ashes in your possesion is mentally sick. Perhaps with fireplace ashes.... Maybe tell her next year...I know but did you miss the part of telling her AFTER burial expenses?I almost sent my MIL a spoonful of ashes from a friend's long-dead evil cat after she repeatedly demanded our daughter's ashes. I understand that she is also grieving but that is such a crock of shit.I am so terribly sorry for your loss. She is a disgusting person who is trying to take advantage of you and your husband when you are vulnerable. She wants to steal your daughter for her benefit to play "World's Best Grandma" to her friends and other people. !I cannot fathom the pain your and your DH are feeling. Your MIL is selfish... idk what your husband wants to do, but you should block her. I try to help women on this subreddit because I used to bite the bullet a lot to keep others happy. I’m so sorry for your loss, I can’t even imagine. She will have to accept your boundaries then or spend the night in jail which might do her good. Once you guys stop hurting as much and thinking about it isn't as heartbreaking, then if you want to, you can think about how and when you will resume contact.I totally agree with this! You are her momma and your husband is her daddy; that's all that matters.Scatter your ashes however you and your husband wish, send her the urn with some fireplace ashes in it ant tell her to STFU about it forever. Also, if it isn't too painful for you,maybe you could consider having a keepsake made from some of the ashes so that you can hold it close.

(DH knew that JNMIL had blocked my social media sometime after the move and before we announced, but that wasn't our problem.) But here's the story. You are in no place to be dealing with her while trying to process what has happened. Crazy Mother In Laws Ruin Thanksgiving - r/JNMIL - Duration: 15:41. You and your hubby are in my thoughts.Secondly, cut off contact immediately. Marriages need extra care after losing a child. I am just so sorry you have to deal with this right now.I'm afraid I agree with the others. His mother is like a fucking vulture picking your wounds open relentlessly. I know what I would say to her.

It is two letters more.Hahahahaha. Already started pushback on the COVID stuff.Rendered by PID 14138 on r2-app-04f605ed7d559907d at 2020-08-11 19:23:30.647260+00:00 running de4918c country code: US. She told everyone that I was either Demon possessed or crazy.She contacted us offering to have the ashes buried in cemetery of her choice, she said she would pay for cost of the burial herself, she even visited the cemetery that she had in mind, my husband already stated that we will still follow through with what we had decidedAnd there's nothing she can do about it unless he let her and he said he won't let her.She sent me an email after that basically saying 'since neither you nor my son are in a healthy mental state to be able to make any rational decisions regarding my beloved granddaughter,

It is a huge hurt to the heart. Then see if hubby is open to changing his last name. In the meantime block your JNMIL on your phone and organise for her emails to be sent to your spam folder. You and your husband have lost your most precious connection and all she cares about is where she fits in?Where's the motherly connection to YOU!

Yea at this point I knew she was narcissistic but lately, from one of my cousins, I learned she might be a psychopath. Who treats grieving parents like this? Losing one so young is no different. As I’m sure you’re aware, this is serious grief. 15:41. Obviously exmil doesn't know this either.SO is freaked out because the letter was hand delivered so exmil or one of her FMs were at our home - he spent most of yesterday double checking all the windows and doors and looking up alarm systems online.Can't tell the youngest kids (5 and 7) and the middly had been staying with dd#1 and her fiance since the last time exmil was snooping and is stuck there for the foseeable future with FSIL being sick and we can;t risk passing it on to her younger siblings,Sorry for the rant - just needed to vent and figured you guys were the best. Bottom line; do not let her words detour you. DD#2 called her and opened the letter - it was from exMIL and was a basically a two page interrogation about DD#1's wedding and the postponement and exMIL questioning the menu and asking about her room - DD#2 was laughing so hard she could barely read it aloud. I'm sorry for your loss. Since SO is "Significant Other", I had always read LO as "Little Other"Thanks. YOUR grief, YOUR feelings, YOUR wishes area all that matters.